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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 24.06.2025 00:14

How does one succeed in life?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

What I need from you?

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An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

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First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Procrastinates a lot.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

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The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

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Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

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Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

That's it for today.

Hangs out with loser friends.

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Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

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Do not set goals—set systems.

Making more friends is a goal.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

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Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

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Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Does not procrastinate.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

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Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Ask yourself:

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Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Has anyone ever tried any specific strategies to stay warm and cozy indoors during the winter months?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.